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The Instigator
Peter1145
Con (against)
The Contender
billsands
Pro (for)

Should people only have sex once married

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Voting Style: Open Point System: 7 Point
Started: 8/5/2019 Category: Philosophy
Updated: 2 years ago Status: Debating Period
Viewed: 300 times Debate No: 122606
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Peter1145

Con

I was reading about how a woman was very proud that she saved herself and gave her virginity to her husband why is that so important? And that men who marry non virgins are considered fools for marrying a women like that and that men is allway disrespected and shamed for having a non Virgin bride because it"s like being okay wearing someone else"s used underwear and their not great enough to to have their own new pair that they got a women who doesn"t completely love him and will allways have love and feeling for another so their marriage is bad because they don"t truly love each other and can"t truly love each other at the same level and can"t experience the high experience of love, Connection, And togetherness that a couple who"s married as virgins can? What do you think would society be better of people waited till marriage for sex or not and what about people who think that"s stuff about you an your marriage that you can"t experience the same level of love as giving yourself sexually to your one and only only?
billsands

Pro

It really isnt anyones business regulating peoples private lives violate the most primary aspects of individual liberty. Promiscuity has many dire consequences for the individual and society as a whole, But to regulate them as is done in islamic tyrannies is to create a totalitarian nightmare
Debate Round No. 1
Peter1145

Con

You need to step up your game and give me your best shot no kid gloves. What examples of tatalitarian nightmares do you mean? How do you know those people aren"t happier, Living more peaceful simpler lives, And more likely to go to heaven instead of being horribly punished. ? People says it no one else"s bussiness but if you were having sex with your pet or own baby society would feel it"s their bussiness. Plus people would argue that"s the parents, Family, Children, Community, Their church and God have a lot of investment in that bussiness and would also feel extremely sad, Angry, Or ashamed if the couple weren"t virgins and had sex before marriage. Because the parents would be ashamed for not raising children strong enough to stay virgin till marriage and angry that someone used their daughter for sex and didn"t marry her like a prostitute most men don"t want their daughter to have sex unless it"s with the man their marrying men would kill and torture it they even knew you thought of their daughter sexually. Also the their future children would be weak, Teased, And more likely to fail at school? , Work, And life, Feel ashamed, More likely to be drug addicted and criminals like thief"s, Murderers, Rapists, And psychopaths because their parents are in a relationship that"s not as good as one were the couple marry virgins. You close friends, Members of your community, And church community would be affected making them look bad influencing them and making them more likely to fall and end up worse in life be unhappyand be criminals as well. Plus if you don"t stay a virgin like your parents and God"s wishes does that mean you don"t love them enough not to sexually stimulate yourself in someway till your married and can do it with your only partner only. Plus God"s in charge and control of everything and if he doesn"t want things certain ways because he doesn"t like it shouldn"t we listen to him because he does so much for us and his feeling really more important than ours. Also he could take away everything good in your life that he give and allows and might punish you horribly possibly forever. Can"t you just wait till marriage is it that hard and is having. Sex drive and enjoying looking at things sexually and having sex really worth it or even that good. Can't you not do it at all. You start having a sex drive at puberty so about 12 and your likely to be married before 30 so what"s 18 years without anything sexual and that includes pg-13 material anything were the attractiveness of a man or women gives you desires of sex instead of just thinking maybe I should find a person like that to marry. You won"t have sex when your a young teenager or even discover pornography till your a couple years older anyway anyway and most people get married before 25 so is 10 years of no sex really worth having a much less loving marriage, Being a worse human, And being punished by a God who loves you enough to give you life all things that bring you joy and might likely punish you horribly. I don"t necessary believe in this stuff exactly but doing your research and going all out on whatever side your arguing for in a debate means we"re considering all the points as best we can that"s what debate teams do so step it up and give me some good reasons why I could be wrong and having sexual arousal before marriage and doing sexual things could make you happier and a more well adjusted person, Make your relationship better, And make society better.
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Posted by billsands 2 years ago
billsands
The government should stay out of it at any rate
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billsands
the government should stay out of it
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the government should stay out of it
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the government should stay out of it
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the government should stay out of it
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the government should stay out of it
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billsands
the government should stay out of it
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the government should stay out of it
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the government should stay out of it
Posted by billsands 2 years ago
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the government should stay out of it
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