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2/8/2018 9:08:21 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
ok so this may be against the rules or out of line so delete it if you want but i'd like some help with a very personal issue. first let me start from the beginning i lost my virginity about a year ago and although it was a bit painful as was to be expected it wasn't too bad well since then it has been going downhill. At first it only hurt when the guy first put it in then afterward the pain would subside however to this day i feel no sexual pleasure and don't get orgasms from sex i seem to be getting "wet" just fine however don't seem to be feeling the sexual arousal i should be. Here lately it seems sex has become more and more of a burden it is increasingly painful and uncomfortable even after the first few minutes once again still seem to be getting wet yet no sexual pleasure i am still extremely tight which i find odd as if my vagina isn't stretching out or something.

call me crazy but i'm pretty sure sex isn't supposed to be me thinking the whole time can it be over now? or being glad when it finally is at first i thought it was just because i was still so tight and since many of my recent partners have been African American i thought perhaps there large size could also be a factor but i am not so convinced anymore i have looked it up and i don't seem to fit anything there saying i used to enjoy sex even with no orgasms but now i just dread it. Recently i was with a new partner and he put it in and granted i wasn't nearly lubricated enough it hurt so bad i actually began to cry a little bit i felt as if i was being raped whats wrong with me? does anyone know?

Oh and BTW i really don't want to tell my mom i'm having sex so doctor is probably out of the question
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2/8/2018 9:18:54 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
your profile says your 23 (an adult) so whatever talks you have with your doctor should be confidential.

unless you're f*cking 12 inchers, sex shouldn't be painful after a year of having it...and the pain certainly should not have become worse.
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2/8/2018 10:31:32 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
Consult your doctor about the physical issues.

Psychologically, you may just be asexual.
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2/8/2018 1:42:32 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
It shouldn"t hurt physically, but you should feel shame.
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2/8/2018 3:10:20 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
btw, don't listen to these guys too much...I'm the only one that's commented here that actually knows what having a vagina is like
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2/8/2018 3:17:25 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 2/8/2018 9:08:21 AM, Sruthipathak wrote:
ok so this may be against the rules or out of line so delete it if you want but i'd like some help with a very personal issue. first let me start from the beginning i lost my virginity about a year ago and although it was a bit painful as was to be expected it wasn't too bad well since then it has been going downhill. At first it only hurt when the guy first put it in then afterward the pain would subside however to this day i feel no sexual pleasure and don't get orgasms from sex i seem to be getting "wet" just fine however don't seem to be feeling the sexual arousal i should be. Here lately it seems sex has become more and more of a burden it is increasingly painful and uncomfortable even after the first few minutes once again still seem to be getting wet yet no sexual pleasure i am still extremely tight which i find odd as if my vagina isn't stretching out or something.

call me crazy but i'm pretty sure sex isn't supposed to be me thinking the whole time can it be over now? or being glad when it finally is at first i thought it was just because i was still so tight and since many of my recent partners have been African American i thought perhaps there large size could also be a factor but i am not so convinced anymore i have looked it up and i don't seem to fit anything there saying i used to enjoy sex even with no orgasms but now i just dread it. Recently i was with a new partner and he put it in and granted i wasn't nearly lubricated enough it hurt so bad i actually began to cry a little bit i felt as if i was being raped whats wrong with me? does anyone know?

Oh and BTW i really don't want to tell my mom i'm having sex so doctor is probably out of the question
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I don't want to know about someone's azz being ripped apart
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2/8/2018 3:27:00 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 2/8/2018 3:10:20 PM, Emilrose wrote:
btw, don't listen to these guys too much...I'm the only one that's commented here that actually knows what having a vagina is like

oh come on your's has callouses how can you give advise.
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2/8/2018 3:48:37 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 2/8/2018 3:27:00 PM, kevin24018 wrote:
At 2/8/2018 3:10:20 PM, Emilrose wrote:
btw, don't listen to these guys too much...I'm the only one that's commented here that actually knows what having a vagina is like

oh come on your's has callouses how can you give advise.

Eeeuuuhhh!!!, that is disgusting lol callouses?
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2/8/2018 4:00:59 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 2/8/2018 2:04:16 PM, Perussi wrote:
*seventh vs emil again*

Emilrose and I get along quite well. This comment is out of line.
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2/8/2018 4:01:22 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 2/8/2018 3:48:37 PM, FanboyMctroll wrote:
At 2/8/2018 3:27:00 PM, kevin24018 wrote:
At 2/8/2018 3:10:20 PM, Emilrose wrote:
btw, don't listen to these guys too much...I'm the only one that's commented here that actually knows what having a vagina is like

oh come on your's has callouses how can you give advise.

Eeeuuuhhh!!!, that is disgusting lol callouses?

https://youtu.be...
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2/8/2018 4:29:26 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 2/8/2018 3:27:00 PM, kevin24018 wrote:
At 2/8/2018 3:10:20 PM, Emilrose wrote:
btw, don't listen to these guys too much...I'm the only one that's commented here that actually knows what having a vagina is like

oh come on your's has callouses how can you give advise.

this comment is disgusting.
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2/8/2018 4:30:24 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 2/8/2018 4:00:59 PM, SeventhProfessor wrote:
At 2/8/2018 2:04:16 PM, Perussi wrote:
*seventh vs emil again*

Emilrose and I get along quite well. This comment is out of line.

+1
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2/8/2018 6:40:33 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 2/8/2018 9:08:21 AM, Sruthipathak wrote:
ok so this may be against the rules or out of line so delete it if you want but i'd like some help with a very personal issue. first let me start from the beginning i lost my virginity about a year ago and although it was a bit painful as was to be expected it wasn't too bad well since then it has been going downhill. At first it only hurt when the guy first put it in then afterward the pain would subside however to this day i feel no sexual pleasure and don't get orgasms from sex i seem to be getting "wet" just fine however don't seem to be feeling the sexual arousal i should be. Here lately it seems sex has become more and more of a burden it is increasingly painful and uncomfortable even after the first few minutes once again still seem to be getting wet yet no sexual pleasure i am still extremely tight which i find odd as if my vagina isn't stretching out or something.

call me crazy but i'm pretty sure sex isn't supposed to be me thinking the whole time can it be over now? or being glad when it finally is at first i thought it was just because i was still so tight and since many of my recent partners have been African American i thought perhaps there large size could also be a factor but i am not so convinced anymore i have looked it up and i don't seem to fit anything there saying i used to enjoy sex even with no orgasms but now i just dread it. Recently i was with a new partner and he put it in and granted i wasn't nearly lubricated enough it hurt so bad i actually began to cry a little bit i felt as if i was being raped whats wrong with me? does anyone know?

Oh and BTW i really don't want to tell my mom i'm having sex so doctor is probably out of the question
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http://www.bristy-roy.com... "
http://www.snehadespandey.com...
http://www.heenakhan.com...
http://www.aliyasinha.com...
http://www.neha-tyagi.com...
http://www.ambikaahuja.com...
http://www.sapna-chaudhary.com...
http://www.sellyarora.com...

Hello. It is nice to meet you here. I see on your profile it says that you are an Asian
female. Now if this is true, you may need to consider the fact that you have the smallest vagina opening of all races of women. This is a known fact and it has a lot to do with genetics, and heritage. The measure usually goes by the length of the canal and the width of the lips and the size of the pubic bone and labia area. You may also have a condition
known as vaginismus. This means that the muscles in the vagina contract when
confronted with penetration. Its common in people who have had some kind of
sexual trauma or for whatever reason feel emotional resistance when being
penetrated during intercourse. There may be many reasons why you are experiencing this. Just be sure to consult a doctor for a more thorough examination on this matter.
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2/8/2018 6:45:47 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 2/8/2018 6:40:33 PM, inferno wrote:
At 2/8/2018 9:08:21 AM, Sruthipathak wrote:
ok so this may be against the rules or out of line so delete it if you want but i'd like some help with a very personal issue. first let me start from the beginning i lost my virginity about a year ago and although it was a bit painful as was to be expected it wasn't too bad well since then it has been going downhill. At first it only hurt when the guy first put it in then afterward the pain would subside however to this day i feel no sexual pleasure and don't get orgasms from sex i seem to be getting "wet" just fine however don't seem to be feeling the sexual arousal i should be. Here lately it seems sex has become more and more of a burden it is increasingly painful and uncomfortable even after the first few minutes once again still seem to be getting wet yet no sexual pleasure i am still extremely tight which i find odd as if my vagina isn't stretching out or something.

call me crazy but i'm pretty sure sex isn't supposed to be me thinking the whole time can it be over now? or being glad when it finally is at first i thought it was just because i was still so tight and since many of my recent partners have been African American i thought perhaps there large size could also be a factor but i am not so convinced anymore i have looked it up and i don't seem to fit anything there saying i used to enjoy sex even with no orgasms but now i just dread it. Recently i was with a new partner and he put it in and granted i wasn't nearly lubricated enough it hurt so bad i actually began to cry a little bit i felt as if i was being raped whats wrong with me? does anyone know?

Oh and BTW i really don't want to tell my mom i'm having sex so doctor is probably out of the question
http://www.sruthipathak.com...
http://www.honey-preet.com...
http://www.bristy-roy.com... "
http://www.snehadespandey.com...
http://www.heenakhan.com...
http://www.aliyasinha.com...
http://www.neha-tyagi.com...
http://www.ambikaahuja.com...
http://www.sapna-chaudhary.com...
http://www.sellyarora.com...

Hello. It is nice to meet you here. I see on your profile it says that you are an Asian
female. Now if this is true, you may need to consider the fact that you have the smallest vagina opening of all races of women. This is a known fact and it has a lot to do with genetics, and heritage. The measure usually goes by the length of the canal and the width of the lips and the size of the pubic bone and labia area. You may also have a condition
known as vaginismus. This means that the muscles in the vagina contract when
confronted with penetration. Its common in people who have had some kind of
sexual trauma or for whatever reason feel emotional resistance when being
penetrated during intercourse. There may be many reasons why you are experiencing this. Just be sure to consult a doctor for a more thorough examination on this matter.

Thanks for the sex education there Dr. Inferno, you are a real expert on vagina's, are you a gynecologist or just a perv?
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2/8/2018 6:47:19 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 2/8/2018 6:45:47 PM, FanboyMctroll wrote:
At 2/8/2018 6:40:33 PM, inferno wrote:
At 2/8/2018 9:08:21 AM, Sruthipathak wrote:
ok so this may be against the rules or out of line so delete it if you want but i'd like some help with a very personal issue. first let me start from the beginning i lost my virginity about a year ago and although it was a bit painful as was to be expected it wasn't too bad well since then it has been going downhill. At first it only hurt when the guy first put it in then afterward the pain would subside however to this day i feel no sexual pleasure and don't get orgasms from sex i seem to be getting "wet" just fine however don't seem to be feeling the sexual arousal i should be. Here lately it seems sex has become more and more of a burden it is increasingly painful and uncomfortable even after the first few minutes once again still seem to be getting wet yet no sexual pleasure i am still extremely tight which i find odd as if my vagina isn't stretching out or something.

call me crazy but i'm pretty sure sex isn't supposed to be me thinking the whole time can it be over now? or being glad when it finally is at first i thought it was just because i was still so tight and since many of my recent partners have been African American i thought perhaps there large size could also be a factor but i am not so convinced anymore i have looked it up and i don't seem to fit anything there saying i used to enjoy sex even with no orgasms but now i just dread it. Recently i was with a new partner and he put it in and granted i wasn't nearly lubricated enough it hurt so bad i actually began to cry a little bit i felt as if i was being raped whats wrong with me? does anyone know?

Oh and BTW i really don't want to tell my mom i'm having sex so doctor is probably out of the question
http://www.sruthipathak.com...
http://www.honey-preet.com...
http://www.bristy-roy.com... "
http://www.snehadespandey.com...
http://www.heenakhan.com...
http://www.aliyasinha.com...
http://www.neha-tyagi.com...
http://www.ambikaahuja.com...
http://www.sapna-chaudhary.com...
http://www.sellyarora.com...

Hello. It is nice to meet you here. I see on your profile it says that you are an Asian
female. Now if this is true, you may need to consider the fact that you have the smallest vagina opening of all races of women. This is a known fact and it has a lot to do with genetics, and heritage. The measure usually goes by the length of the canal and the width of the lips and the size of the pubic bone and labia area. You may also have a condition
known as vaginismus. This means that the muscles in the vagina contract when
confronted with penetration. Its common in people who have had some kind of
sexual trauma or for whatever reason feel emotional resistance when being
penetrated during intercourse. There may be many reasons why you are experiencing this. Just be sure to consult a doctor for a more thorough examination on this matter.

Thanks for the sex education there Dr. Inferno, you are a real expert on vagina's, are you a gynecologist or just a perv?

I gave her a serious answer your reckless buffoon. Now fly away somewhere.
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2/8/2018 7:04:43 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
Hello. It is nice to meet you here. I see on your profile it says that you are an Asian
female. Now if this is true, you may need to consider the fact that you have the smallest vagina opening of all races of women. This is a known fact and it has a lot to do with genetics, and heritage. The measure usually goes by the length of the canal and the width of the lips and the size of the pubic bone and labia area. You may also have a condition
known as vaginismus. This means that the muscles in the vagina contract when
confronted with penetration. Its common in people who have had some kind of
sexual trauma or for whatever reason feel emotional resistance when being
penetrated during intercourse. There may be many reasons why you are experiencing this. Just be sure to consult a doctor for a more thorough examination on this matter.

Thanks for the sex education there Dr. Inferno, you are a real expert on vagina's, are you a gynecologist or just a perv?

I gave her a serious answer your reckless buffoon. Now fly away somewhere.

Thanks Dr. Inferno
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2/8/2018 7:45:25 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 2/8/2018 7:04:43 PM, FanboyMctroll wrote:
Hello. It is nice to meet you here. I see on your profile it says that you are an Asian
female. Now if this is true, you may need to consider the fact that you have the smallest vagina opening of all races of women. This is a known fact and it has a lot to do with genetics, and heritage. The measure usually goes by the length of the canal and the width of the lips and the size of the pubic bone and labia area. You may also have a condition
known as vaginismus. This means that the muscles in the vagina contract when
confronted with penetration. Its common in people who have had some kind of
sexual trauma or for whatever reason feel emotional resistance when being
penetrated during intercourse. There may be many reasons why you are experiencing this. Just be sure to consult a doctor for a more thorough examination on this matter.

Thanks for the sex education there Dr. Inferno, you are a real expert on vagina's, are you a gynecologist or just a perv?

I gave her a serious answer your reckless buffoon. Now fly away somewhere.

Thanks Dr. Inferno

interesting I'll have to ask my wife if she's part Asian somewhere in her family tree LOL Though at my previous job a woman needed an "exam" she was Vietnamese and her husband said to the nurse they needed the smallest speculum they had, true story.
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2/8/2018 8:00:17 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 2/8/2018 7:45:25 PM, kevin24018 wrote:
At 2/8/2018 7:04:43 PM, FanboyMctroll wrote:
Hello. It is nice to meet you here. I see on your profile it says that you are an Asian
female. Now if this is true, you may need to consider the fact that you have the smallest vagina opening of all races of women. This is a known fact and it has a lot to do with genetics, and heritage. The measure usually goes by the length of the canal and the width of the lips and the size of the pubic bone and labia area. You may also have a condition
known as vaginismus. This means that the muscles in the vagina contract when
confronted with penetration. Its common in people who have had some kind of
sexual trauma or for whatever reason feel emotional resistance when being
penetrated during intercourse. There may be many reasons why you are experiencing this. Just be sure to consult a doctor for a more thorough examination on this matter.

Thanks for the sex education there Dr. Inferno, you are a real expert on vagina's, are you a gynecologist or just a perv?

I gave her a serious answer your reckless buffoon. Now fly away somewhere.

Thanks Dr. Inferno

interesting I'll have to ask my wife if she's part Asian somewhere in her family tree LOL Though at my previous job a woman needed an "exam" she was Vietnamese and her husband said to the nurse they needed the smallest speculum they had, true story.

So I guess that rumor about Asian men is true then? lol

So does that mean black women have the largest opening? Dr. Inferno should have the answer on this, since he is the expert
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2/8/2018 8:03:12 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 2/8/2018 6:40:33 PM, inferno wrote:
At 2/8/2018 9:08:21 AM, Sruthipathak wrote:
ok so this may be against the rules or out of line so delete it if you want but i'd like some help with a very personal issue. first let me start from the beginning i lost my virginity about a year ago and although it was a bit painful as was to be expected it wasn't too bad well since then it has been going downhill. At first it only hurt when the guy first put it in then afterward the pain would subside however to this day i feel no sexual pleasure and don't get orgasms from sex i seem to be getting "wet" just fine however don't seem to be feeling the sexual arousal i should be. Here lately it seems sex has become more and more of a burden it is increasingly painful and uncomfortable even after the first few minutes once again still seem to be getting wet yet no sexual pleasure i am still extremely tight which i find odd as if my vagina isn't stretching out or something.

call me crazy but i'm pretty sure sex isn't supposed to be me thinking the whole time can it be over now? or being glad when it finally is at first i thought it was just because i was still so tight and since many of my recent partners have been African American i thought perhaps there large size could also be a factor but i am not so convinced anymore i have looked it up and i don't seem to fit anything there saying i used to enjoy sex even with no orgasms but now i just dread it. Recently i was with a new partner and he put it in and granted i wasn't nearly lubricated enough it hurt so bad i actually began to cry a little bit i felt as if i was being raped whats wrong with me? does anyone know?

Oh and BTW i really don't want to tell my mom i'm having sex so doctor is probably out of the question
http://www.sruthipathak.com...
http://www.honey-preet.com...
http://www.bristy-roy.com... "
http://www.snehadespandey.com...
http://www.heenakhan.com...
http://www.aliyasinha.com...
http://www.neha-tyagi.com...
http://www.ambikaahuja.com...
http://www.sapna-chaudhary.com...
http://www.sellyarora.com...

Hello. It is nice to meet you here. I see on your profile it says that you are an Asian
female. Now if this is true, you may need to consider the fact that you have the smallest vagina opening of all races of women. This is a known fact and it has a lot to do with genetics, and heritage. The measure usually goes by the length of the canal and the width of the lips and the size of the pubic bone and labia area. You may also have a condition
known as vaginismus. This means that the muscles in the vagina contract when
confronted with penetration. Its common in people who have had some kind of
sexual trauma or for whatever reason feel emotional resistance when being
penetrated during intercourse. There may be many reasons why you are experiencing this. Just be sure to consult a doctor for a more thorough examination on this matter.

this is bs. I'm not an Asian and I have a (smallish) vagina

besides what are you...some kind of self-proclaimed vagina expert?
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2/8/2018 8:10:49 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 2/8/2018 8:00:17 PM, FanboyMctroll wrote:
At 2/8/2018 7:45:25 PM, kevin24018 wrote:
At 2/8/2018 7:04:43 PM, FanboyMctroll wrote:
Hello. It is nice to meet you here. I see on your profile it says that you are an Asian
female. Now if this is true, you may need to consider the fact that you have the smallest vagina opening of all races of women. This is a known fact and it has a lot to do with genetics, and heritage. The measure usually goes by the length of the canal and the width of the lips and the size of the pubic bone and labia area. You may also have a condition
known as vaginismus. This means that the muscles in the vagina contract when
confronted with penetration. Its common in people who have had some kind of
sexual trauma or for whatever reason feel emotional resistance when being
penetrated during intercourse. There may be many reasons why you are experiencing this. Just be sure to consult a doctor for a more thorough examination on this matter.

Thanks for the sex education there Dr. Inferno, you are a real expert on vagina's, are you a gynecologist or just a perv?

I gave her a serious answer your reckless buffoon. Now fly away somewhere.

Thanks Dr. Inferno

interesting I'll have to ask my wife if she's part Asian somewhere in her family tree LOL Though at my previous job a woman needed an "exam" she was Vietnamese and her husband said to the nurse they needed the smallest speculum they had, true story.

So I guess that rumor about Asian men is true then? lol

So does that mean black women have the largest opening? Dr. Inferno should have the answer on this, since he is the expert

All I can tell is the bigger the woman the bigger the speculum they grabbed, and some of those where HUGE, you know the whole tying a 2x4 to yer a$$ so you don't fall in.
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2/8/2018 8:11:51 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 2/8/2018 8:03:12 PM, Emilrose wrote:
At 2/8/2018 6:40:33 PM, inferno wrote:
At 2/8/2018 9:08:21 AM, Sruthipathak wrote:
ok so this may be against the rules or out of line so delete it if you want but i'd like some help with a very personal issue. first let me start from the beginning i lost my virginity about a year ago and although it was a bit painful as was to be expected it wasn't too bad well since then it has been going downhill. At first it only hurt when the guy first put it in then afterward the pain would subside however to this day i feel no sexual pleasure and don't get orgasms from sex i seem to be getting "wet" just fine however don't seem to be feeling the sexual arousal i should be. Here lately it seems sex has become more and more of a burden it is increasingly painful and uncomfortable even after the first few minutes once again still seem to be getting wet yet no sexual pleasure i am still extremely tight which i find odd as if my vagina isn't stretching out or something.

call me crazy but i'm pretty sure sex isn't supposed to be me thinking the whole time can it be over now? or being glad when it finally is at first i thought it was just because i was still so tight and since many of my recent partners have been African American i thought perhaps there large size could also be a factor but i am not so convinced anymore i have looked it up and i don't seem to fit anything there saying i used to enjoy sex even with no orgasms but now i just dread it. Recently i was with a new partner and he put it in and granted i wasn't nearly lubricated enough it hurt so bad i actually began to cry a little bit i felt as if i was being raped whats wrong with me? does anyone know?

Oh and BTW i really don't want to tell my mom i'm having sex so doctor is probably out of the question
http://www.sruthipathak.com...
http://www.honey-preet.com...
http://www.bristy-roy.com... "
http://www.snehadespandey.com...
http://www.heenakhan.com...
http://www.aliyasinha.com...
http://www.neha-tyagi.com...
http://www.ambikaahuja.com...
http://www.sapna-chaudhary.com...
http://www.sellyarora.com...

Hello. It is nice to meet you here. I see on your profile it says that you are an Asian
female. Now if this is true, you may need to consider the fact that you have the smallest vagina opening of all races of women. This is a known fact and it has a lot to do with genetics, and heritage. The measure usually goes by the length of the canal and the width of the lips and the size of the pubic bone and labia area. You may also have a condition
known as vaginismus. This means that the muscles in the vagina contract when
confronted with penetration. Its common in people who have had some kind of
sexual trauma or for whatever reason feel emotional resistance when being
penetrated during intercourse. There may be many reasons why you are experiencing this. Just be sure to consult a doctor for a more thorough examination on this matter.

this is bs. I'm not an Asian and I have a (smallish) vagina

besides what are you...some kind of self-proclaimed vagina expert?

I never said other races of Women do not have small vaginas.
But it is a known fact that most Asian Women do have rather small vaginas. Also Chinese women for example have very narrow torsos and short vaginal canals because of the low birth rates and more restrained sexual practices than European and Western Women.
I know about racial differences in pelvic anatomy because I studied this in school.
I knew all about this since I was 18 years old.
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2/8/2018 8:12:58 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 2/8/2018 8:03:12 PM, Emilrose wrote:
At 2/8/2018 6:40:33 PM, inferno wrote:
At 2/8/2018 9:08:21 AM, Sruthipathak wrote:
ok so this may be against the rules or out of line so delete it if you want but i'd like some help with a very personal issue. first let me start from the beginning i lost my virginity about a year ago and although it was a bit painful as was to be expected it wasn't too bad well since then it has been going downhill. At first it only hurt when the guy first put it in then afterward the pain would subside however to this day i feel no sexual pleasure and don't get orgasms from sex i seem to be getting "wet" just fine however don't seem to be feeling the sexual arousal i should be. Here lately it seems sex has become more and more of a burden it is increasingly painful and uncomfortable even after the first few minutes once again still seem to be getting wet yet no sexual pleasure i am still extremely tight which i find odd as if my vagina isn't stretching out or something.

call me crazy but i'm pretty sure sex isn't supposed to be me thinking the whole time can it be over now? or being glad when it finally is at first i thought it was just because i was still so tight and since many of my recent partners have been African American i thought perhaps there large size could also be a factor but i am not so convinced anymore i have looked it up and i don't seem to fit anything there saying i used to enjoy sex even with no orgasms but now i just dread it. Recently i was with a new partner and he put it in and granted i wasn't nearly lubricated enough it hurt so bad i actually began to cry a little bit i felt as if i was being raped whats wrong with me? does anyone know?

Oh and BTW i really don't want to tell my mom i'm having sex so doctor is probably out of the question
http://www.sruthipathak.com...
http://www.honey-preet.com...
http://www.bristy-roy.com... "
http://www.snehadespandey.com...
http://www.heenakhan.com...
http://www.aliyasinha.com...
http://www.neha-tyagi.com...
http://www.ambikaahuja.com...
http://www.sapna-chaudhary.com...
http://www.sellyarora.com...

Hello. It is nice to meet you here. I see on your profile it says that you are an Asian
female. Now if this is true, you may need to consider the fact that you have the smallest vagina opening of all races of women. This is a known fact and it has a lot to do with genetics, and heritage. The measure usually goes by the length of the canal and the width of the lips and the size of the pubic bone and labia area. You may also have a condition
known as vaginismus. This means that the muscles in the vagina contract when
confronted with penetration. Its common in people who have had some kind of
sexual trauma or for whatever reason feel emotional resistance when being
penetrated during intercourse. There may be many reasons why you are experiencing this. Just be sure to consult a doctor for a more thorough examination on this matter.

this is bs. I'm not an Asian and I have a (smallish) vagina

besides what are you...some kind of self-proclaimed vagina expert?

are these sized like shoes? because some brands the size is way off. How many vajajays are you using for your self comparison, asking for a friend.
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2/8/2018 8:21:50 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
I used to have an ex who sex was painful for. I started just sticking it in half way. When I started just using half of my umh "member", The pain went away and sex was more pleasurable. Maybe that would help
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2/8/2018 8:22:46 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 2/8/2018 6:40:33 PM, inferno wrote:
At 2/8/2018 9:08:21 AM, Sruthipathak wrote:
ok so this may be against the rules or out of line so delete it if you want but i'd like some help with a very personal issue. first let me start from the beginning i lost my virginity about a year ago and although it was a bit painful as was to be expected it wasn't too bad well since then it has been going downhill. At first it only hurt when the guy first put it in then afterward the pain would subside however to this day i feel no sexual pleasure and don't get orgasms from sex i seem to be getting "wet" just fine however don't seem to be feeling the sexual arousal i should be. Here lately it seems sex has become more and more of a burden it is increasingly painful and uncomfortable even after the first few minutes once again still seem to be getting wet yet no sexual pleasure i am still extremely tight which i find odd as if my vagina isn't stretching out or something.

call me crazy but i'm pretty sure sex isn't supposed to be me thinking the whole time can it be over now? or being glad when it finally is at first i thought it was just because i was still so tight and since many of my recent partners have been African American i thought perhaps there large size could also be a factor but i am not so convinced anymore i have looked it up and i don't seem to fit anything there saying i used to enjoy sex even with no orgasms but now i just dread it. Recently i was with a new partner and he put it in and granted i wasn't nearly lubricated enough it hurt so bad i actually began to cry a little bit i felt as if i was being raped whats wrong with me? does anyone know?

Oh and BTW i really don't want to tell my mom i'm having sex so doctor is probably out of the question
http://www.sruthipathak.com...
http://www.honey-preet.com...
http://www.bristy-roy.com... "
http://www.snehadespandey.com...
http://www.heenakhan.com...
http://www.aliyasinha.com...
http://www.neha-tyagi.com...
http://www.ambikaahuja.com...
http://www.sapna-chaudhary.com...
http://www.sellyarora.com...

Hello. It is nice to meet you here. I see on your profile it says that you are an Asian
female. Now if this is true, you may need to consider the fact that you have the smallest vagina opening of all races of women. This is a known fact and it has a lot to do with genetics, and heritage. The measure usually goes by the length of the canal and the width of the lips and the size of the pubic bone and labia area. You may also have a condition
known as vaginismus. This means that the muscles in the vagina contract when
confronted with penetration. Its common in people who have had some kind of
sexual trauma or for whatever reason feel emotional resistance when being
penetrated during intercourse. There may be many reasons why you are experiencing this. Just be sure to consult a doctor for a more thorough examination on this matter.

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2/8/2018 8:24:13 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 2/8/2018 8:12:58 PM, kevin24018 wrote:
At 2/8/2018 8:03:12 PM, Emilrose wrote:
At 2/8/2018 6:40:33 PM, inferno wrote:
At 2/8/2018 9:08:21 AM, Sruthipathak wrote:
ok so this may be against the rules or out of line so delete it if you want but i'd like some help with a very personal issue. first let me start from the beginning i lost my virginity about a year ago and although it was a bit painful as was to be expected it wasn't too bad well since then it has been going downhill. At first it only hurt when the guy first put it in then afterward the pain would subside however to this day i feel no sexual pleasure and don't get orgasms from sex i seem to be getting "wet" just fine however don't seem to be feeling the sexual arousal i should be. Here lately it seems sex has become more and more of a burden it is increasingly painful and uncomfortable even after the first few minutes once again still seem to be getting wet yet no sexual pleasure i am still extremely tight which i find odd as if my vagina isn't stretching out or something.

call me crazy but i'm pretty sure sex isn't supposed to be me thinking the whole time can it be over now? or being glad when it finally is at first i thought it was just because i was still so tight and since many of my recent partners have been African American i thought perhaps there large size could also be a factor but i am not so convinced anymore i have looked it up and i don't seem to fit anything there saying i used to enjoy sex even with no orgasms but now i just dread it. Recently i was with a new partner and he put it in and granted i wasn't nearly lubricated enough it hurt so bad i actually began to cry a little bit i felt as if i was being raped whats wrong with me? does anyone know?

Oh and BTW i really don't want to tell my mom i'm having sex so doctor is probably out of the question
http://www.sruthipathak.com...
http://www.honey-preet.com...
http://www.bristy-roy.com... "
http://www.snehadespandey.com...
http://www.heenakhan.com...
http://www.aliyasinha.com...
http://www.neha-tyagi.com...
http://www.ambikaahuja.com...
http://www.sapna-chaudhary.com...
http://www.sellyarora.com...

Hello. It is nice to meet you here. I see on your profile it says that you are an Asian
female. Now if this is true, you may need to consider the fact that you have the smallest vagina opening of all races of women. This is a known fact and it has a lot to do with genetics, and heritage. The measure usually goes by the length of the canal and the width of the lips and the size of the pubic bone and labia area. You may also have a condition
known as vaginismus. This means that the muscles in the vagina contract when
confronted with penetration. Its common in people who have had some kind of
sexual trauma or for whatever reason feel emotional resistance when being
penetrated during intercourse. There may be many reasons why you are experiencing this. Just be sure to consult a doctor for a more thorough examination on this matter.

this is bs. I'm not an Asian and I have a (smallish) vagina

besides what are you...some kind of self-proclaimed vagina expert?

are these sized like shoes? because some brands the size is way off. How many vajajays are you using for your self comparison, asking for a friend.

all I know is that mine is fairly tight...so I was just trying to say that not only asians have small ones lol
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2/8/2018 8:24:53 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 2/8/2018 9:08:21 AM, Sruthipathak wrote:
ok so this may be against the rules or out of line so delete it if you want but i'd like some help with a very personal issue. first let me start from the beginning i lost my virginity about a year ago and although it was a bit painful as was to be expected it wasn't too bad well since then it has been going downhill. At first it only hurt when the guy first put it in then afterward the pain would subside however to this day i feel no sexual pleasure and don't get orgasms from sex i seem to be getting "wet" just fine however don't seem to be feeling the sexual arousal i should be. Here lately it seems sex has become more and more of a burden it is increasingly painful and uncomfortable even after the first few minutes once again still seem to be getting wet yet no sexual pleasure i am still extremely tight which i find odd as if my vagina isn't stretching out or something.

call me crazy but i'm pretty sure sex isn't supposed to be me thinking the whole time can it be over now? or being glad when it finally is at first i thought it was just because i was still so tight and since many of my recent partners have been African American i thought perhaps there large size could also be a factor but i am not so convinced anymore i have looked it up and i don't seem to fit anything there saying i used to enjoy sex even with no orgasms but now i just dread it. Recently i was with a new partner and he put it in and granted i wasn't nearly lubricated enough it hurt so bad i actually began to cry a little bit i felt as if i was being raped whats wrong with me? does anyone know?

Oh and BTW i really don't want to tell my mom i'm having sex so doctor is probably out of the question
http://www.sruthipathak.com...
http://www.honey-preet.com...
http://www.bristy-roy.com... "
http://www.snehadespandey.com...
http://www.heenakhan.com...
http://www.aliyasinha.com...
http://www.neha-tyagi.com...
http://www.ambikaahuja.com...
http://www.sapna-chaudhary.com...
http://www.sellyarora.com...

Honey if you don't like it don't do it. If you're looking for activities you do like try branching out sexually. Oral sex is nice and need not be followed by penetration.
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2/8/2018 8:26:27 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 2/8/2018 8:11:51 PM, inferno wrote:
At 2/8/2018 8:03:12 PM, Emilrose wrote:
At 2/8/2018 6:40:33 PM, inferno wrote:
At 2/8/2018 9:08:21 AM, Sruthipathak wrote:
ok so this may be against the rules or out of line so delete it if you want but i'd like some help with a very personal issue. first let me start from the beginning i lost my virginity about a year ago and although it was a bit painful as was to be expected it wasn't too bad well since then it has been going downhill. At first it only hurt when the guy first put it in then afterward the pain would subside however to this day i feel no sexual pleasure and don't get orgasms from sex i seem to be getting "wet" just fine however don't seem to be feeling the sexual arousal i should be. Here lately it seems sex has become more and more of a burden it is increasingly painful and uncomfortable even after the first few minutes once again still seem to be getting wet yet no sexual pleasure i am still extremely tight which i find odd as if my vagina isn't stretching out or something.

call me crazy but i'm pretty sure sex isn't supposed to be me thinking the whole time can it be over now? or being glad when it finally is at first i thought it was just because i was still so tight and since many of my recent partners have been African American i thought perhaps there large size could also be a factor but i am not so convinced anymore i have looked it up and i don't seem to fit anything there saying i used to enjoy sex even with no orgasms but now i just dread it. Recently i was with a new partner and he put it in and granted i wasn't nearly lubricated enough it hurt so bad i actually began to cry a little bit i felt as if i was being raped whats wrong with me? does anyone know?

Oh and BTW i really don't want to tell my mom i'm having sex so doctor is probably out of the question
http://www.sruthipathak.com...
http://www.honey-preet.com...
http://www.bristy-roy.com... "
http://www.snehadespandey.com...
http://www.heenakhan.com...
http://www.aliyasinha.com...
http://www.neha-tyagi.com...
http://www.ambikaahuja.com...
http://www.sapna-chaudhary.com...
http://www.sellyarora.com...

Hello. It is nice to meet you here. I see on your profile it says that you are an Asian
female. Now if this is true, you may need to consider the fact that you have the smallest vagina opening of all races of women. This is a known fact and it has a lot to do with genetics, and heritage. The measure usually goes by the length of the canal and the width of the lips and the size of the pubic bone and labia area. You may also have a condition
known as vaginismus. This means that the muscles in the vagina contract when
confronted with penetration. Its common in people who have had some kind of
sexual trauma or for whatever reason feel emotional resistance when being
penetrated during intercourse. There may be many reasons why you are experiencing this. Just be sure to consult a doctor for a more thorough examination on this matter.

this is bs. I'm not an Asian and I have a (smallish) vagina

besides what are you...some kind of self-proclaimed vagina expert?

I never said other races of Women do not have small vaginas.
But it is a known fact that most Asian Women do have rather small vaginas. Also Chinese women for example have very narrow torsos and short vaginal canals because of the low birth rates and more restrained sexual practices than European and Western Women.
I know about racial differences in pelvic anatomy because I studied this in school.
I knew all about this since I was 18 years old.

Dr. Inferno, is here to take your questions, he also does do home visits and provides penetration techniques.
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2/8/2018 8:26:36 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 2/8/2018 8:24:13 PM, Emilrose wrote:
At 2/8/2018 8:12:58 PM, kevin24018 wrote:
At 2/8/2018 8:03:12 PM, Emilrose wrote:
At 2/8/2018 6:40:33 PM, inferno wrote:
At 2/8/2018 9:08:21 AM, Sruthipathak wrote:
ok so this may be against the rules or out of line so delete it if you want but i'd like some help with a very personal issue. first let me start from the beginning i lost my virginity about a year ago and although it was a bit painful as was to be expected it wasn't too bad well since then it has been going downhill. At first it only hurt when the guy first put it in then afterward the pain would subside however to this day i feel no sexual pleasure and don't get orgasms from sex i seem to be getting "wet" just fine however don't seem to be feeling the sexual arousal i should be. Here lately it seems sex has become more and more of a burden it is increasingly painful and uncomfortable even after the first few minutes once again still seem to be getting wet yet no sexual pleasure i am still extremely tight which i find odd as if my vagina isn't stretching out or something.

call me crazy but i'm pretty sure sex isn't supposed to be me thinking the whole time can it be over now? or being glad when it finally is at first i thought it was just because i was still so tight and since many of my recent partners have been African American i thought perhaps there large size could also be a factor but i am not so convinced anymore i have looked it up and i don't seem to fit anything there saying i used to enjoy sex even with no orgasms but now i just dread it. Recently i was with a new partner and he put it in and granted i wasn't nearly lubricated enough it hurt so bad i actually began to cry a little bit i felt as if i was being raped whats wrong with me? does anyone know?

Oh and BTW i really don't want to tell my mom i'm having sex so doctor is probably out of the question
http://www.sruthipathak.com...
http://www.honey-preet.com...
http://www.bristy-roy.com... "
http://www.snehadespandey.com...
http://www.heenakhan.com...
http://www.aliyasinha.com...
http://www.neha-tyagi.com...
http://www.ambikaahuja.com...
http://www.sapna-chaudhary.com...
http://www.sellyarora.com...

Hello. It is nice to meet you here. I see on your profile it says that you are an Asian
female. Now if this is true, you may need to consider the fact that you have the smallest vagina opening of all races of women. This is a known fact and it has a lot to do with genetics, and heritage. The measure usually goes by the length of the canal and the width of the lips and the size of the pubic bone and labia area. You may also have a condition
known as vaginismus. This means that the muscles in the vagina contract when
confronted with penetration. Its common in people who have had some kind of
sexual trauma or for whatever reason feel emotional resistance when being
penetrated during intercourse. There may be many reasons why you are experiencing this. Just be sure to consult a doctor for a more thorough examination on this matter.

this is bs. I'm not an Asian and I have a (smallish) vagina

besides what are you...some kind of self-proclaimed vagina expert?

are these sized like shoes? because some brands the size is way off. How many vajajays are you using for your self comparison, asking for a friend.

all I know is that mine is fairly tight...so I was just trying to say that not only asians have small ones lol

Thank you EmilRose for your comments here. It is very much appreciated.

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